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Non Biblical which may be suitable for use at a funeral or Service
of thanksgiving for a person’s life The Revd
Camilla Walton
Vicar of
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I am standing on the seashore.
Suddenly a ship at my side
Spreads her white sails to the
morning breeze,
And starts out for the blue ocean.
She is an object of beauty and
strength,
And I stand and watch her
Until at length she is only a ribbon
of white cloud
Just above where sea and sky mingle
with each other.
Then someone at my side says
‘There! She’s gone!’
Gone where?
Gone from my sight – that is all.
She is just as large in mast and
hull and spar
As she was when she left my side,
And just as able to bear her load of
living freight
To the place of destination.
Her diminished size is in me, not in
her,
And just at the moment when someone
at my side says,
‘There! She’s gone!’
there are other voices ready to take
the glad shout,
‘There! She comes!’
And that is dying.
Words
found in the wallet of Colonel Marcus, of the Israeli Army,
when he was killed in action on June
11 1948
(Funeral Liturgies/McCarthy/1994)
A ship sails and I stand
watching till she fades on the
horizon, and someone at my
side says, “She is gone”.
Gone where? Gone from my
sight, that is all; she is just as
large as when I saw her...
The diminished size and total
loss of sight is in me, not in
her, and just at the moment
when someone at my side
says “she is gone”,
there are others watching her
coming, and other voices
take up a glad shout, “there
she comes!”... and that is
dying.
If I should die and leave you here awhile,
Be not like others, sore undone, who
keep
Long vigils by the silent dust, and
weep.
For my sake, turn again to life and
smile,
Nerving thy heart and trembling hand
to do
Something to comfort weaker hearts
than thine.
Complete those dear unfinished tasks
of mine
And I perchance may therein comfort
you.
You reap where you do not sow
You reap where you do not sow.
Un-seeded, the sea yields up its
harvest of a myriad fish ‑
(You reap where you do not sow)
Cod, mackerel, whiting, hake,
plaice, herring, sole;
They fill the nets of a thousand
trawlers,
Make living, thrashing, silvery‑blue
mountains
On a thousand heaving decks.
Ploughing those endless, restless,
moving pastures,
Men reap the perpetual harvest of
the sea,
As they have reaped it from the dawn
of time.
Now plunging deeper into that
fertile womb
Upon the ocean bed, the phallic
drills
Touch secret springs whence
fountains forth
The power that is the life blood of
another world.
Beneath bleak northern seas lie
wells of heat
Locked in at creation, summoned by
our need.
What other harvests wait there to be
reaped
- Undreamt of now ‑ a million
years away?
Earth's crammed with
heaven,
And every common bush afire with
God;
But only he who sees, takes off his shoes
‑
The rest sit round it and pluck
blackberries.
Elizabeth
Barrett Browning
I THANK YOU, GOD, THAT I HAVE LIVED
I thank you, God, that I have lived
In this great world and known its
many joys;
The song of birds, the strong, sweet
smell of hay
And cooling breezes in the secret
dusk,
The flaming sunsets at the close of
day,
Hills, and the lonely,
heather-covered moors,
Music at night, and moonlight on the
sea,
The beat of waves upon the rocky
shore
And wild, white spray, flung high in
ecstasy;
The faithful eyes of dogs, and
treasured books,
The love of kin and fellowship of
friends,
And all that makes life dear and
beautiful.
I thank you, too, that there has
come to me
A little sorrow and, sometimes,
defeat,
A little heartache and the
loneliness
That comes with parting, and the
word “Goodbye”,
Dawn breaking after dreary hours of
pain,
When I discovered that night’s gloom must yield
And morning light break through to
me again.
Because of these and other blessings
poured
Because I know that there is yet to
come
An even richer and more glorious
life,
And most of all, because Your only
Son
Once sacrificed life’s loveliness
for me –
I thank you, God, that I have lived.
Elizabeth Craven
Dancing the
Skies
Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds
of earth
And danced the skies on
laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I've climbed and joined the
tumbling mirth
Of sun-split clouds - and done a
hundred things
You have not dreamed of - wheeled
and soared and swung,
Hung in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring
there
I've chased the shouting wind along,
and flung
My eager craft tho' footles halls of
air.
Up, up the long, delirious, burning
blue
I've topped the wind-swept heights
with easy grace
Where never lark, nor eagle flew -
And while with silent, lifting mind
I've trod
The high, untrespassed sanctity of
space,
Put out my hand and touched the face
of God.
(found written by Bob Boyd in the
front of the book
"Out of the Blue")
by John Gillespie Magee
If I should
go
If I should go before the rest of
you,
break not a flower, nor inscribe a
stone,
nor when I’m gone speak in a Sunday
voice
but be the usual selves that I have
known.
Weep if you must,
parting is hell - but life goes on
so sing as well.
Joyce Grenfell.
from “NATURE IS A HERACLITEAN
FIRE”
Enough! The Resurrection
A heart’s-clarion! Away grief’s gasping,
joyless days, dejection.
Across my foundering deck shone
A beacon, and eternal beam.
Flesh fade, and mortal trash
Fall to the residuary worm;
world’s wildfire, leave but ash
In a flash, at a trumpet crash,
I am all at once what Christ is,
since he is what I am, and
This jack, joke, poor potsherd,
patch, matchwood, immortal diamond,
Is immortal diamond.
Gerard Manley Hopkins
GOD’S GRANDEUR
The World is charged with the
grandeur of God.
It will flame out, like shining from
shook foil;
It gathers to a greatness, like the
ooze of oil
crushed. Why do men then now not wreck his rod?
Generations have trod, have trod,
have trod;
And all is seared with trade;
bleared, smeared with toil;
And wears man’s smudge and shares
man’s smell; the soil
Is bare now, nor can foot feel,
being shod.
And for all this, nature is never
spent;
There lives the dearest freshness
deep down things;
And though the last lights off the
black West went
Oh, morning at the brown brink
eastward, springs -
Because the Holy Ghost over the bent
World broods with warm breast and
ah! bright wings.
Gerard Manley Hopkins
HEAVEN-HAVEN
I have desired to go
Where springs not fail,
To fields where flies no sharp sided
hail
And few lilies blow.
I have desired to go
And I have asked to be
Where no storms come,
Where the green swell is in the
havens dumb,
And out of
the swing of the sea.
I have
asked to be
Gerard Manley Hopkins
THE CANDLE
INDOORS
Some candle clear burns somewhere I
come by
I
muse at how its being puts blissful hack
With yellowy moisture mild night’s
blear-all black,
Or to-fro tender trambeams truckle
at the eye.
By that window what task what
fingers ply,
I plod wondering, a-wanting, just for lack
Of answer the eager a-wanting Jessie
or Jack
There God to aggrandise, God to glorify.
Come you indoors, come home; your
fading fire
Mend first and vital candle in close
heart’s vault;
You there are master, do your own
desire;
What hinders? Are you beam-blind, yet to a fault
In a neighbour deft-handed? Are you that liar
And, cast by conscience out, spend
savour salt?
Gerard Manley Hopkins
THE LANTERN
OUT OF DOORS
Sometimes a lantern moves along the
night,
That interests our eyes. And who
goes there?
I think; where from and bound, I
wonder where,
With all down darkness wide, his
wading light?
`
Men go by me whom either beauty
bright
In mould or mind or what not else makes
rare:
The rain against our muck-thick and
marsh air
Rich beams, till death or distance
buys them quite.
Death or distance soon consumes
them: wind
What most I may eye after, be in at
the end
I cannot, and out of sight is out of
mind.
Christ minds; Christ’s interest,
what to avow or amend
There, eyes them, heart wants, care
haunts, foot follows kind,
Their ransom, their rescue, and
first, fast last friend.
Gerard Manley Hopkins
GOD’S GARDEN 1
The Lord God planted a garden
In the first white days of the world
And He set there an angel warden
In a garment of light enfurled.
So near to the peace of Heaven
The hawk might nest with the wren
For there in the cool of the even
God walked with the first of men.
And I claim that these gardens
closes
with their glades and their sun
flecked sod
And their lilies and bowers of roses
Were laid by the hand of God.
The kiss of the sun for pardon
The song of the birds for mirth
One is nearer God’s heart in a
garden
Than anywhere else on earth.
Dorothy Frances Gurney
(Extract from) : THE PROPHET by Kahil Gibran
Then Almitra spoke saying, We would
ask now of Death.
And he said
You would know the secret of death.
But how shall you find it unless you
seek it in the heart of life?
The owl whose night-bound eyes are
blind
unto the day cannot unveil the
mystery of light.
If you would indeed behold the
spirit of death,
open your heart wide unto the body
of life.
For life and death are one,
even as the river and the sea are
one.
in the depth of your hopes and
desires
lies your silent knowledge of the
beyond;
And like seeds dreaming beneath the
snow
your heart dreams of spring.
Trust the dreams, for in them is
hidden the gate to eternity.
Your fear of death is but the
trembling
of the shepherd when he stands
before
the king whose hand is laid upon him
in honour.
Is the shepherd not joyful beneath
his trembling,
that he shall wear the mark of king?
Yet is he not more mindful of his
trembling?
For what is it to die but to stand naked
in the wind
and to melt into the sun?
And what is it to cease breathing,
but to free the breath from its
restless tides,
that it may rise and expand and seek
God unencumbered?
Only when you drink from the river
of silence
shall you indeed sing.
And when you have reached the
mountain top,
then you shall begin to climb.
And when the earth shall claim your
limbs,
then you shall truly dance.
REMEMBER
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into a silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the
hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning
stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you
planned:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or
pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a
while
And afterwards remember, do not
grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption
leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once
I had,
Better by far you should forget and
smile
Than that you should remember and be
sad.
Christina Rosetti
“DEATH, BE
NOT PROUD”
Death, be not proud, though some
have called thee
Mighty and dreadful, for thou art
not so,
For those whom thou thunk’st thou
dost overthrow,
Die not, poor death, nor yet canst
thou kill me.
From rest and sleep, which but thy
pictures be,
Much pleasure, then from thee, much
more must flow,
And soonest our best men with thee
do go,
Rest of their bones, and soul’s
delivery.
Thou art slave to fate, Chance kings and desperate men,
And poppies or charms can make us
sleep as well,
And better than thy stroke; why swell’st
thou then?
One short sleep is past, we wake
eternally,
And death shall be no more; death
thou shalt die.
John Donne
No man is an
No man is an island, entire of
itself;
every man is a piece of the
continent,
a part of the main; if a clod be
washed away by the sea,
as well as if a manor of thy friends
or of thine were.
Any man’s death diminishes me,
because I am involved in
mankind.
And therefore never send to know for
whom the bell tolls;
it tolls for thee’
John Donne
THE SONG OF THE RIVER
The snow melts on the mountain
And the water runs down to the
spring,
And the spring in a turbulent
fountain,
With a song of youth to sing,
Runs down to the riotous river,
And the river flows to the sea,
And the water again Goes back in
rain
To the hills where it used to be.
And I wonder if life’s deep mystery
Isn’t much like the rain and the
snow
Returning through all eternity
To the places it used to know.
For life was born on the loft
heights
And flows in a laughing stream,
To the river below Whose onward flow
Ends in a peaceful dream.
And so at last,
When our life has passed
And the river has run its course,
It again goes back,
O’er the selfsame track,
To the mountain which was its
source.
So why prize life Or why fear death,
or dread what is to be?
The river ran Its allotted span
Till it reached the silent sea.
Then the water harked back
To the mountain top
To begin its course once more.
So we shall run
The course begun
Till we reach the silent shore.
Then revisit earth
In a pure rebirth
From the heart of the virgin snow.
So don’t ask why
We live or die,
Or whither, or where we go
Or wonder about the mysteries
That only God may know.
by William Randolph Hearst
HE IS THE WAY
Follow Him through the
Now you will see rare beasts,
and have unique adventures.
He is the Truth.
Seek him in the
You will come to a great city
that has expected your return for
years.
He is the Life.
Love Him in the World of the Flesh;
And at your marriage
all its occasions shall dance for
joy.
W. H.
Ander
from “In Memoriam”
I held it truth with him who sings
To one clear harp in divers tones,
That men may rise on stepping-stones
Of their dead selves to higher
things.
But who shall so forecast the years
And find in loss a gain to match?
Or reach a hand thro’ time to catch
The far off interest of tears?
Love is and was my Lord and King,
And in his presence I attend
To hear the tidings of my friend
Which every hour his courtiers
bring.
Love is and was my King and Lord,
And will be, tho’ as yet I keep
Within his court on earth and sleep
Encompassed by his faithful guard,
And hear at times a sentinel
Who moves about from place to place,
And whispers to the worlds of space,
In the deep night, that all is well.
Thy voice is on the rolling air
I hear thee where the waters run,
Thou standest in the rising sun,
And in the setting thou art fair.
What art thou then? I cannot guess;
But tho’ I seem in star and flower
To feel thee some diffusive power,
I do not therefore love thee less:
My love involves the love before;
My love is vaster passion now;
Tho’ mixed with God and Nature thou,
I seem to love thee more and more.
Far off thou art, but ever nigh;
I have the still, and I rejoice;
I prosper, circles with thy voice;
I shall not lose, tho’ I die.
Alfred Lord Tennyson
I CANNOT ALWAYS SEE THE PATH THAT LEADS
I cannot always see the path that
leads
To heights above;
I sometimes quite forget he leads me
on
With hand of love;
But yet I know the path must lead me
to
Immanuel’s land.
And when I reach life’s summit I
shall know
And understand.
I cannot always trace the onward
course
My ship must take;
But, looking backward, I behold afar
It’s shining wake
Illuminated with God’s light of
love, and as
I onward go
Imperfect trust that He who holds
the helm
The course must know,
I cannot always see the plan on
which
He builds my life,
For oft the sound of hammers, blow
by blow,
The noise of strife
Confuse me till I quite forget He
knows
And oversees,
And that’ in details, with His good
plan
My life agrees.
I cannot always know and understand
The Master’s rules;
I cannot always do the tasks He
gives
In life’s hard school;
But I am learning, with His help, to
solve
Them one by one;
And where I cannot understand, to
say
“Thy will be done.”
John Donne
If we do not believe,
the waves engulf us, the winds blow,
nourishment fails, sickness lays us
low or kills us,
the divine power is impotent or
remote.
If, on the other hand we believe,
the waters are welcoming
and sweet, the bread is multiplied,
our eyes are open, the dead rise
again, the power of God is, as it
were, drawn from him by force
and spreads throughout all nature.
Teilhard
de Chardin
HEAVEN
In the heaven of the god I hope for
(call him X)
There is a marriage and giving in
marriage and transient sex
For those who will cast the body’s
vest aside
Soon, but are not yet wholly
rarefied
And still embrace. For X is never annoyed
Or shocked; has read his Jung and
knows his Freud,
He gives you in a time in heaven to
do as you please,
To climb love’s gradual ladder by
slow degrees,
Gently to rise from sense to soul, to ascend
To a world of timeless joy, world
without end.
Here on the gates of pearl, there
hangs no sign
Limiting cakes and ale, forbidding
wine.
No weakness here is hidden, no vice
unknown.
Sin is sickness, to be cured,
outgrown,
With the help of a god who can
laugh, an unsolemn god
Who smiles at old wives’ tales of
iron rod
And fiery hell, a god who’s more at
ease
With bawds and falstaffs than with
Pharisees.
Here the lame learn to leap, the blind
to see,
Tyrants are taught to be humble,
slaves to be free.
Fools become wise and wise men cease
to be bores,
Here bishops learn from the lips of
back street whores,
And white men follow black-faced
angels’ feet
Through fields of orient and
immortal wheat.
*Villion, Lautrec and Baudelaire are
here,
Here swift forgets his anger, Poe
his fear,
napoleon rests,
has reached his new Atlantis, found
his sun.
Verlaine and Dylan Thomas drink
together,
Marx talks to Plato. Byron wonders whether
there’s some mistake. Wordsworth has found a hill
That’s home. Here Chopin plays the piano still.
Wren plans eternal domes; and Renoir
paints
Young girls as ripe as fruit but not
yet saints.
And X, of whom no coward is afraid,
Who’s friend consulted, not fierce
king obeyed;
Who expects not even the learned to
understand
His universe, extends a prodigal
hand,
Full of forgiveness, over his
promised land.
(*This verse could be omitted.)
Tessimond
………Death is the most profound
and significant fact of life:
It lifts the very last of mortals
above the greyness
and banality of life.
And only the fact of death
puts the question of life’s meaning
in all its depth.
\life in this world has meaning
only because there is death:
If there were no death in our world
life would be deprived of meaning.
Meaning is linked with ending.
And if there were no end,
If in our world there was evil
and endlessness of life,
there would be no meaning to life
whatever.
The meaning of man’s moral
experience
throughout his whole life
lies in putting him in a position
to comprehend death.
Nikolai Beryaev
If I should die and leave
you here awhile,
Be not like others, sore undone, who
keep
Long vigils by the silent dust, and
weep.
For my sake, turn again to life and
smile,
Nerving thy heart and trembling hand
to do
Something to comfort weaker hearts
than thine.
Complete those dear unfinished tasks
of mine
And I perchance may therein comfort
you.
A Price Hughes
God has told us
That nothing can sever
A life He created
to live on forever....
So let God’s promise
soften our sorrow
And give us new strength
For a brighter tomorrow.
Helen Steiner Rice
FOOTPRINTS
One night I had a dream,
I dreamed I was walking along the beach
with God,
and across the sky flashed scenes
from my life.
For each scene I noticed two sets of
footprints in the sand,
one belonged to me and the other to
God.
When the last scene in my life
flashed before us
I looked back at the footprints in
the sand.
I noticed that at times along the
path of life
there was only one set of
footprints.
I also noticed that it happened at
the very
lowest and saddest times of my life.
This really bothered me and I
questioned God about it.
“God, You said that once I decided
to follow you,
you would walk with me all the way,
but I noticed that during the most
troublesome times
during my life there is only one set
of footprints.
I don’t understand why in times when
I needed you most,
would leave me.”
God replied, “My precious, precious
child,
I love you and I would never,
never leave you during your times of
trials and suffering.
When you see only one set of footprints
it was then that I carried you.”
Anon.
An Indian
Blessing
Now for you, there is no rain;
for one is shelter to the other.
Now for you, the sun shall not burn;
for one is shelter to the other.
Now for you, nothing is hard or bad;
for the goodness and badness is
taken by one for the other.
Now for you, there is no night;
for one is light to the other.
Now for you, the snow has ended
always;
for one is protection for the other.
It is that way, from now on, from
now on;
Now it is good, and there is always
food,
and now there is always drink,
and now there is comfort.
Now there is no loneliness.
Anon
SONNET
Remember me when I am far away
And still enshrine me in your
faithful heart.
Then ‘twill not mean such bitterness
to part,
For we shall meet in heaven another
day.
But not as I am. dying and week;
The wafted winds that cool the
starry shore
Bring healing to the dwellers
evermore,
The rose of life is splendid on
their cheek!
Remember me as I was long ago
What time we trod the woodland paths
together;
When the trees clustered, and the
sun was low
And the proud hills were sweet with
scented heather.
And the hushed earth lay dreaming
and the skies
Smiled as of old on happy paradise.
William Robertson Nicholl
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there.
I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight
on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at
night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there;
I did not die.
THOUGH I AM DEAD…
Though I am dead, grieve not for me
with tears,
Think not of death with sorrowing
and fears,
I am so near that every tear you
shed
Touches and tortures me though you
think me dead;
But when you laugh and sing in great
delight
My soul is lifted to the light,
Laugh and be glad for all that life
is giving
And I, though dead, will share your
joy of living.
Anon…
A
READING FROM THE BOOK OF WISDOM 4 & 5
Virtuous
people, though they die before their time,
will find
rest.
Length of
days is not what makes age honourable,
nor number
of years the true measure of life.
Understanding this is mankind’s grey hairs;
untarnished
life this is ripe old age.
They have
sought to please God,
so God has
loved them.
Coming to
perfection in so short a while,
they
achieved long life,
their
souls being pleasing to the Lord.
Yet people
look on, uncomprehending.
It does
not enter their heads that grace and mercy
await the
chosen of the Lord,
and
protection, his holy ones.
These people
see the wise persons’ ending
understanding
what the
Lord has in store for them.
The
virtuous live for ever; their recompense lies
with the
Lord the Most High takes care of them.
So they
shall receive the royal crown of splendour,
the diadem
of beauty from the hand of the Lord;
for he
will shelter them with his right hand,
and shield
them with his arm.
A
It is not
in growing like a tree,
In bulk,
doth make man better be;
Or standing
long an oak, three hundred year,
To fall a
log at last, dry, bald, and sear;
A lily of
a day
Is fairer
far, in Nay,
Although
it fall and die that night,
It was a
plant, and flower of light
In small
proportions we oust beauties see;
And in
short measures life may perfect be.
O God, Give Us Your Shielding
O God,
give us your shielding,
O God,
give us your holiness,
O God,
give us your comfort
And your
peace at the hour of our death.
THEIR LAST TRIAL IS TO CROSS OVER THE RIVER THAT HAS NO
BRIDGE
After this
it was noised abroad that Mr Valiant-for-Truth
was taken
with a summons,
and had
this for token that the summons was true,
that his
pitcher was broken at the fountain.
When he understood it,
he called
for his friends, and told them of it.
Then said
he, I am going to my Father’s:
and though
with great difficulty I am got hither,
yet now I
do not repent me of all the trouble
I have
been at, to arrive where I am.
My sword I
give to him that shall succeed me in my pilgrimage,
and my courage
and skill to him that can get it.
My marks
and scars I carry with me,
to be a
witness for me that I have fought
His
battles who now will be my rewarder.
When the
day that he must go hence was come,
many
accompanied him to the river side,
into which as he went he said,
Death,
where thy sting?
And as he
went down deeper,
he said
Grave where is thy victory?
So he
passed over,
and all
the trumpets sounded for him on the other side.
TO…………. WHO IS GONE HENCE
Open the door of
your mercy.
O Christ: that
……….……. may rejoice in glory
and share in the
joys of your kingdom.
For what pleasure
in this life is unmarked by sorrow?
What glory can
endure upon this earth unchanged?
All is feebler than
a shadow, more deceptive than a dream.
for death in a
single moment takes all things away.
But in the light of
your face, O Christ, and in the joy of your beauty,
give rest to those
whom you have chosen,
for the love you
bear to all humanity. Amen.
BLESSING
Leader:
Bless to us, 0 God,
The moon
that is above us,
The earth
that is beneath us,
The friends who are around us,
Your image deep within us,
ALL:
AMEN.
WHEN I DIE
Do not be
sad or grieve for me
When my
days on earth are done,
Do not
despair, hold on to faith
For life
must carry on.
You will
never fear the future
If you let
God take your hand,
He’s been
through all life’s hardships
And will
help you understand.
Talk to me
as you’ve always done
And always
wear a smile,
I’ll be
listening, I’ll be waiting
Parting is
but for a while.
Think of
all the happy times
And those
still yet to come,
For joy is
everlasting
When God’s
will is done.
I’M FREE
Don’t grieve for me for now I’m
free,
I’m following the path God laid for
me.
I took His hand when I heard him
call,
I turned my back and left it all,
I could not stay another day
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that
way,
I found that peace at close of day.
If my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joy,
A friendship shared, a laugh, a
kiss,
Ah yes – these things I too will
miss.
Be not burdened with times of
sorrow,
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life’s been full,
I’ve savoured much,
Good friends, good times,
A loved one’s touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too
brief,
Don’t lengthen it now with undue
grief,
Lift up your hearts and share with
me,
God wanted me now, He set me free
MISS ME – BUT LET ME GO
When I
come to the end of the road
And the sun has for me
I want no rites in a gloom filled
room
Why cry for a soul set free.
Miss me a little – but not too long
And not with your head bowed low
Remember the love that we once
shared
Miss me – but let me go
For this is a journey that we all
must take
And each must go alone
It’s all a part of the Master’s plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at
heart
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrows in doing good
deeds
Miss me – but let me go.
Henry Scott Holland (1847-1918),
Canon of
His strongest
characteristic was his gaiety.
His smile,
his laugh, the light of happiness in his eyes —
these are
the things which those who knew him will recall
when they
think of him.
He allowed
nothing to be sombre.
Having
expressed himself with vigour, even with passion,
when
anything touched the depths of his feelings,
he was
quick to banish the serious look,
to laugh
away the serious situation,
to smother
the bitter disappointment.
THE EARL OF LYTTON from
AMENDED
VERSION TO “HER”:
Her strongest
characteristic was her gaiety.
Her smile,
her laugh, the light of happiness in her eyes —
these are
the things which those who knew her will recall
when they
think of her.
She
allowed nothing to be sombre.
Having
expressed herself with vigour, even with passion,
when
anything touched the depths of her feelings,
she was quick to banish the serious look,
to laugh
away the serious situation,
to smother
the bitter disappointment.
THE EARL OF LYTTON from
Come not to mourn for
me with solemn tread
Clad in
dull weeds of sad and sable hue,
Nor weep
because my tale of life’s told through,
Casting
light dust on my untroubled head.
Nor linger
near me while the sexton fills
My grave
with earth - but go gay-garlanded,
And in
your halls a shining banquet spread
And gild
your chambers o’er with daffodils.
Fill your
tall goblets with white wine and red,
And sing
brave songs of gallant love and true,
Wearing
soft robes of emerald and blue,
And dance,
as I your dances oft have led,
And laugh,
as I have often laughed with you —
And be
most merry — after I am dead.
Under the wise and starry sky
Dig the
grave and let me lie
Glad did I
live and gladly die
And I laid
me down with a will.
This be
the verse you grave for me;
Here he
lies where he longed to be;
Home is
the sailor, home form the sea,
And the
hunter home from the hill.
We are born in exile and die there
too.
As soon as we set sail on the great
voyage of life,
We begin our return.
We spend our lives dreaming
Of a homeland we have never seen.
Like homing birds that are released
in a strange country,
And know no rest until they return
home,
So it is with us.
When we die,
We do not so much go to God
As return to him.
We must not stop here,
However sweet these laid-up stores,
However convenient this dwelling,
We cannot remain here.
However sheltered this port,
And however calm these waters,
We must not anchor here.
However welcome the hospitality that
surrounds us,
We are permitted to receive it but a
little.
So, the long, long anchorage we
leave;
Out little white-hull’d sloop
Now speeds on really deep waters,
No more returning to these shores.
Sail out with us, Lord,
Sail out with us to that unknown
region,
Where neither ground is for our fe,
Nor any path to follow,
Nor map, nor guide,
Nor voice sounding,
Nor touch of human hand.
Sail out with us, Lord,
And guide us to the Promised Land.
(Funeral Liturgies/McCarthy/1994).
THE HOOFS OF THE HORSES!
The hoofs of the horses! Oh! Witching and sweet
Is the music earth steals from the
iron-shod feet.
No whisper of lover, no trilling of
bird
Can stir me as hoofs of the horses
have stirred.
On the wings of the morning they
gather and fly,
In the hush of the night-time, I
hear them go by.
The horses of memory thundering
though
With flashing white fetlocks all wet
with the dew.
When you lay me to slumber, no spot
you can choose
But will ring with the rhythm of
galloping shoes,
And under the daisies, no grave be
so deep
But the hoofs of the horses shall
sound in my sleep.
Will H. Ogilvie
We give them back to you, O Lord,
Who first gave them to us;
And as you did not lose them in the
giving,
So we do not lose them in the
return.
Nor as the world gives do you give,
O Lover of souls
For what is yours is ours also,
If we belong to you.
Life is unending because love is
undying,
And the boundaries of this life are
but an horizon,
And an horizon is but the limit of
our vision.
Lift us up, strong Son of God,
That we may see further.
Strengthen our faith that we may see
beyond the horizon.
And while you prepare a place for
us,
As you have promised,
That where you are we may be also,
With those we have loved, forever.
Bede Jarrett O.P.(Funeral Liturgies/McCarthy/1994)
Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
I am I, and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my own familiar name;
speak to me in the easy way which
you always used;
Put no difference in your tone;
wear no forced air of solemnity or
sorrow;
Laugh, as we always laughed at the
little jokes we enjoyed together;
(pray, smile, think of me;)
Let my name be ever the household
word that it always was;
let it be spoken without effect;
without the trace of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant;
It is the same as it ever was; there
is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because
I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an
interval, somewhere very near
Just around the corner.
All is well.'
Henry Scott Holland (1847-1918),
Canon of
God looked around his Garden
and found an empty place.
He then looked down upon this Earth,
and saw your lovely face.
He put his arms round you
and lifted you to rest.
God’s garden must be beautiful,
he always takes the best.
He knew you were suffering,
He knew you were in pain,
He knew that you would never
Get well on earth again.
He saw the road was getting rough
and the hills were hard to climb.
So he closed your weary eyelids,
And whispered, “Peace Be thine”.
It broke our hearts to lose you but
You didn’t go alone,
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.
Anon
WHEN I DIE.
Do not be sad
or grieve for me
When my
days on earth are done,
Do not
despair, hold on to faith
For life
must carry on.
You will
never fear the future
If you let
God take your hand,
He’s been
through all life’s hardships
And will
help you understand.
Talk to me
as you’ve always done
And always
wear a smile,
I’ll be
listening, I’ll be waiting
Parting is
but for a while.
Think of
all the happy times
And those
still yet to come,
For joy is
everlasting
When God’s
will is done.
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